Are you stuck in negative sentiment override? (Assuming that your partner has negative intentions, Alyson Bullock, MFT & Relationship Coach 1,2 тыс. подписчиков Скачать
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Antidotes to defensiveness: ✨curiosity ✨reflective listening ✨breathing through uncomfortable emot Скачать
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