6 Things to pay attention to when guys approach you. How to tell if a guy is serious.
Women right me all the time about guys they are talking to. They usually want to know if I think he’s serious about getting to know them or developing a relationship. Often you can tell from the very beginning what a guy is about. This list touches a few ideas to keep in mind about the very beginning from his approach to the first few encounters. Of course they aren’t absolute but more often than not keeping these things in mind will help protect you against guys who don’t want more than a hookup.
Is he super smooth or a bit nervous
If i was a woman I wouldn’t even respond to guys who didn’t appear at least a little bit nervous when approaching me.
Sincerity reverence and noble intention are far more likely to accompany a guy who hasn’t mastered approaching women than some ultra smooth guy completely comfortable approaching you or makingm mexual advances.
Women often site confidence as of of the deciding factors of how they respond to a guy approaching them. Unfortunately many don’t realize the difference between self confidence and cockiness is a clue of intent. They can identify cockiness but they have no clue that it’s often a direct result of his intended use for them. Though His intention can evolve if you play your cards right. Women often ask me when to play hard to get. This is one of those times. If a guy approaches you over confident or cocky, if you respond at all don’t just play hard to get actually be hard to get. He’s cocky because he disregards your intelligence your value and your ability to affect him emotionally. Why would you ever want to entertain a guy who doesn’t see you as an emotional threat. Caution equals respect. If a mans not cautious in how he approaches you it’s because he lacks a healthy fear or even respect for you. Caution and tact should always be apparent. Few women who sleep cocky guys before relationships ever get more than booty call status.
When a guy a little nervous and a little careful
It is indicative of his respectable impression of you. He cares about your response how you see him. His nervousness shouldn’t be automatically seen as a lack of confidence in himself. That’s not always the case. I’ve approached a lot of women nervously. It’s never been a result of self doubt. I’ve never lacked confidence. Not kissing my own ass or anything but I’m a great man and I’ve always known that. When I’ve approached women nervously it’s always been because I wasn’t sure if she would recognize how special I was. I didn’t know if she could feel my intention or integrity. It’s also not safe to assume she judges those things as highly as certain looks, status, money, or street credibility. Is she wise enough to recognize whats in front of her and value this opportunity. You never know. Though a man may feel great, he has no idea what a woman may measure as great. After being rejected , underestimated, and disregarded a good man start to lose faith in a woman’s ability to see his value. For every woman who’s been mistreated I can show you a man who’s been played by a woman for another man. Many times for men with smaller hearts, smaller bank accounts, smaller minds, less potential, and less integrity. All that to say his nervousness could be an uncertainty in your judgment and not in himself.
His tone of voice
Many times tone indicates intention. Neutral tones not so much. But if you notice a guy trying to use his bedroom voice when he approaches you he may be a scoundrel.
There’s are 3 reasons men lower their voices when approaching women. 1. They are nervous which you can usually tell if you pay attention. When I was young and first started approaching women I kept getting told told to speak up. It was funny looking back because I would practice my little lines and walk up to a girl and she be like huh? And I’d have to repeat myself. Which made me all the more nervous.
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