It's kind of funny. In the teacher's manual of A Course In Miracles, there are some direct comments Jesus is making about relationships. And it's funny, because he's not saying, "There are some good ones and there some bad ones." He just kind of calls them all learning opportunities.
So he says, "Yeah there are some people that you'll barely know, like acquaintances. And those are learning opportunities. And those are people we call acquaintances." But he doesn't really address it that way. He's just, "People that just in passing, you know, pass through our lives, learning opportunities.
But then he gets to another category that we would call life mate. He says, "There's people that you'll spend a great deal of time with," which could include life mates. And he says, "That doesn't mean there aren't going to be challenges." And he even says, In fact, you might even find," (like the wording is along the lines of) "They might become quite contentious."
But again, he's not saying, "Oh, that's sad. You should go and find the right one for you." There is no such thing. They're all just learning opportunities. And our job is to create holiness amongst our thoughts about all human beings ever, throughout all time. Complete love, unconditional love for everyone. Spiritual love for everyone. That's our destiny.
It's not just our goal. Thank God it's a destiny, meaning, one day it'll actually come to pass. So why do I want to prolong that by still having judgmental contentious relations?
Do your best to heal all relationships that come into your life - acquaintances, life mates, or whatever they are, but see through things a little more clearly. Be awake, spiritually, and see through things. So just recognize that, you know, they will go through stages. Don't say to yourself, just because it's going through a challenging stage, it must mean it's over. But also don't say because it's in a honeymoon stage it's supposed to be forever.
Those are both ego presentations. Honeymoon to basically B.S. ourselves into getting all you know stimulate and excited in the situation, and then the honeymoon's over, getting into fault-finding and judgment. Neither of those are God.
So, we're going to go through those, but see them.See them and call them for what they are, and do your best to say, "You know, I'm going to create gifting relationships and when I do, I'm not going to so easily get tempted to toss them out. Because when I give thanks for them, because there are some good relations that reflect our progress, don't dis them or you throw away your progress. You see, the ego will trick you into doing that.
Try not to give in so easily on those that have been earned. Instead give thanks for them. And do your best to stay out of judgement with the others. It doesn't mean stay blind and remain in a hurtful situation. But do your best to see it and learn what you can from it.
"Where's this coming from? What are these lessons about? What are these buttons being pushed, and where are they coming from?" Ask. And then practice your best to forgive.
But you can also then make your decision. "I forgave, but I don't think I'm staying in this relationship." Especially if there's any kinds of dangers involved. Especially. God would not want you to be in pain or in danger. Leave. God would want you to. If you're in danger of some kind or your children are in danger, leave. But God even in that would say, "Now that you're safely in a hotel, a women's shelter, or in your own house, a new life, I want you to sit and take some time to see what you can learn from it so we don't have to see you do that again.
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