The narcissist subjects you to 3 tests:

1. Are you capable of being idealized?

Minimal traits, assets, and behaviors.

2. Are you able to provide 2 of the 4 Ss?

Sex: find him irresistible, enthusiastic, consensual-submissive, prone to sexual fantasies, unboundaried-kinky, self-trashing, promiscuous.

Services (that he needs and lacks).

Supply (narcissistic or sadistic): adoring, uncritical, submissive, masochistic, self-loathing.

Safety: addictive personality, maternal bonding, loyal, inertial.

Are you vulnerable to shared fantasy?

Damaged-broken, daydreamer, abhors reality, romantic (even as a friend), grandiose, self-love deficit.

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