Here’s the real reason why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners:
Deep down, you might be subconsciously seeking out the familiar. If you’ve experienced inconsistency, neglect, or emotional distance in past relationships—or even during childhood—your brain can start to associate these patterns with love.
It feels “normal,” even if it’s unhealthy.
To break the cycle, you need to start by recognising this pattern and understanding where it comes from.
Focus on healing those unresolved wounds and work on redefining what a healthy, fulfilling relationship looks like for you.
Seek out partners who are emotionally available, and be ready to confront and address any discomfort that arises from being in a genuinely supportive and loving relationship.
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