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In this video, I teach you how to stop obsessing over an ex girlfriend, and how to stop going into oneitis with her.
If you recently broke up with your ex, you're probably in a lot of pain right now.
And it's totally understandable.
The girl was a big part of your life, and now that she's gone, it seems like the end of the world.
You feel this way because you're addicted to the bond you had with her. You're addicted to the way her love and affection provided validation for your self-esteem.
Now that you're cut off from that validation, you feel depressed.
And this is making you constantly think about your ex. You want her back more than anything. You can't get her out of your thoughts. It's like you have tunnel-vision with her.
You have "oneitis" with this girl.
Most men catch oneitis when they break up with their girlfriends. This is a state of mind where you only think about ONE girl. But the thing is, if you ever want to recover and move past this breakup, you have to beat that oneitis.
In your case, you constantly think about your ex girlfriend.
However, oneitis stops you from ever getting her back.
So you need to get away from oneitis.
Here are 3 keys to stop obsessinve over her and re-attract her back.. (in the video I go into more detail on each one)
1. Learn the Difference Between "Scarcity" and "Abundance" and Learn Why Oneitis Comes From Scarcity
Oneitis is what I call a "scarcity problem." Scarcity means you are lacking in other options. In particular, you completely depend on one girl for positive emotions.
That's why you need to start talking to other women. Also, start socializing with other people. Go out with buddies. Get a hobby.
These things help you break the "monopoly" she has on your emotions.
2. A Woman's Feelings Aren't Set in Stone
If she said "I don't have feelings for you" - it is only valid at the time she said it.
This means that you can reverse her feelings and start getting her to love you again.
3. But to Get Her Back, You Must Know How Attraction "Works"
If you don't know how attraction works, you will keep making the same mistakes other men make that result in their wife leaving them.
If you do know how attraction works, you will know how to re-attract her back, she will be surprised by your newfound attitude, and your love will be stronger than ever.
To ideal first step to learn this is to read my FREE "How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back" eBook and learn how to use attraction to get your ex girlfriend back:
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