What is squirting?💦 thanks to porn, young people seem to have some crazy misconceptions and unrealistic expectations🥴Let’s get the facts

Also:

While lots of the most easily accessible articles on the topic say squirting is basically pee because it comes out of the urethra and has trace amounts of urine in it, consider the fact that even semen comes out of the urethra and has trace amounts of urine in it —

more nuanced articles quoting findings from a range of studies illustrate why it doesn’t quite make sense to call squirt pee— and the more I think about it the more it strikes me that pop culture makes such a big deal of women’s body fluids as if they are embarrassing or dirty — but surely squirting is considerably more erotic than pee and it happens as a result of sexual pleasure so why call it pee— it isn’t quite the same in its circumstance or function

And yet by making it look like women can squirt like the Niagara Falls in porn on the one hand, and by health websites saying squirt is pee on the other hand, it makes what should just be one more thing that can maybe happen during sex into this thing that’s either totally exaggerated and fetishized or relegated to the realm of an excretory function—pee— which many people would find gross

Personally I wish we would just get the messaging that sex is normal, bodily fluids are normal— and that womxn’s sexual experiences be neither exaggerated nor judged/dismissed

#sexeducation #youtubeshorts #shorts

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