The #narcissist will use #blameshifting as a way to avoid #responsibility for their actions and this maintains the #toxicrelationship of #narcissists. I will discuss further in today's #shortsvideo

Is your partner not taking accountability? If your partner is a narcissist, does a narcissist want to change? Can you make a narcissist change? Those are questions you might find you are always asking yourself if you are in a relationship with a narcissist. You find you are doing more in the relationship than they are and that can be frustrating. Why wont he makes changes in the relationship? You may also think is everything my fault? If he refuses to make changes, why is that? The narcissist or emotionally abusive partner wants you to think everything is your fault. They need to use blame shifting as a punishment tactic to take the focus off of them and onto you. The narcissist has a fragile ego and low self esteem which mean they can’t manage feelings of shame. Whether they can defend against the shame is dependent on how full their narcissist supply is. If he refuses to make changes then it is probably because he is incapable of change. Change requires the ability to see your role in what is happening and the narcissist lacks responsibility taking. As much as you want the narcissist to change, they won’t. They need you to think everything is my fault and question am I the problem in the relationship. As long as you think you are the problem, the less the focus is on them. Is everything really my fault in the narcissist relationship? Yes, it is. The narcissist can’t take responsibility and expose themselves to shame so they make everything about someone else.

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