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Want to know what healthy masculinity looks like? In this video, I describe typical masculinity traits of safe, healthy men. I also discuss their counterparts – men who exhibit a masculinity complex, who seem misinformed about what it means to be a man.
Here are three positive masculinity traits that tend to show up in safe and healthy men:
1. They’re attractive on a deep level, in a way you may not recognize. Think about this: Once you’ve been wounded, you put on armor. When you sense danger, your defenses perk up. Sometimes you misinterpret this reaction for physical attraction, rather than fear.
Here’s the thing: Healthy masculinity won’t ping your armor! It doesn’t cause an adrenaline rush. If you’re used to protecting yourself from men with a masculinity complex (and lots of pings), this subtle attraction is unfamiliar. Pay attention to your intuition – to this different, soul-deep attraction.
2. They have a quiet confidence. Absent are toxic masculinity traits like aggression and lechery. Safe men are sure of themselves without controlling or belittling you. Real men don’t need to act cocky or overcompensate. Healthy masculinity doesn’t crave the spotlight.
3. They’re consistent. Now, in the absence of huge highs or lows, consistency may not seem sexy. But healthy men continually show up, and that stability is valuable. By contrast, men with a masculinity complex can’t express their pain. Their inner turmoil often leads to hurtful behavior and turbulent relationships.
Don’t miss out on safe, healthy men because they’re not what you expect. More importantly, attract and be attracted to healthy relationships by looking inward and healing the broken parts of yourself.
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