** 10 Things You Must Do After No Contact **
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Tip Number One – Assume a positive mindset.
This is one of the most important things to remember moving forward. The LAST thing you want to do is undo all the hard work that you put in over the last month or so. You do NOT want to transform back into the jealous, emotional, and hysterical version of yourself (if that was the case).
This one’s a big one, guys… but it’s a LOT easier than you think it is. The goal of this step is to simply establish positive communication so you can escalate to a date or potential meetup. Right now, your ex will probably still think that you’re pining over him or her… but this is the last thing that you want to convey if you’re reaching out to them for the first time after a month.
You want to show them that you’ve A.) moved on and are focusing on different things, and that B.) that life is going extremely well for you. To do this, you can use one of the many text messages that I outline in my Ex Factor Guide program.
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Post “No Contact” Tip Number Five – Set up a short meeting
Once you’ve established contact with your ex and you’ve been building anticipation, it’s time to escalate your interaction and meet in person. You can do this a number of ways, but depending on how your relationship ended previously, you might need to re-work your strategy. But in most scenarios, setting up a quick coffee date is one of the best ways to go about in meeting up with your ex.
You could say something like…
“So can I just buy you a coffee and you can tell me about the attractions in San Jose? I’d totally appreciate it! It’ll be super quick, promise.”
Post “No Contact Tip” Number Six – Meet Your Ex!
Remember that the goal here in the first meet up is to have a great time. You’re not bringing up things from the past, you’re not here to start a fight with your ex, and you’re not here to start any unnecessary drama. Instead, focusing on being happy, positive, and making sure that your ex is having fun with you. Now’s the time to show off a little bit, too. Talk about all the amazing things that are happening in your life.
Post “No Contact” Tip Number Seven – Hire Me As Your Breakup Coach!
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Post “No Contact” Tip Number Eight – Flirt!
During your first meet up with your ex, you’re going to want to flirt with him or her subtly. Don’t be too pushy or aggressive -- this is all about having fun and building organic attraction with your ex again. So here’s a short list of subtle but flirty behaviour that you can exhibit to make sure that your ex comes crawling back to you for more and more…
Post “No Contact” Tip Number Nine – Make it known that other people are chasing you down.
This requires a little bit of strategy and planning. What you need to do is formulate a plan to instill a bit of jealousy in your ex. That means you have to come up with a story that paints you as someone who is highly sought after. You could tell them a story about a co-worker that is insistently trying to ask you out on a date… or maybe a tale about how someone you met from the bar won’t stop calling you. Any story like this works, but here’s the catch – you need to make it obvious that you’re not sure whether you’re into THEM or not. Leave your ex wondering about your dating life.
Post “No Contact” Tip Number Ten – SLEEP WITH YOUR EX!
Now, I don’t want to say this as a hard and fast rule. It really matters where you are with your ex… and there’s a difference if you’re a guy or a girl trying to get his or her ex back. But generally speaking, your goal here is to make sure that you build enough sexual attraction with your ex so that he or she will want to sleep with you.
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