Clay Andrews (from [ Ссылка ]) talks about what to do after No Contact period with your ex and the purpose of the first contact.

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After No Contact, you might have a lot of pressure that you’re feeling. After all, you’ve got to do something that’s going to show your ex that the two of you should get back together.

Or at least that’s what it can feel like.

But if you’re thinking that, I want to take some of that pressure off of your shoulders for a moment.

You see, the first contact after No Contact isn’t going to get your ex back.

In fact it shouldn’t.

That’s way too much riding on a single text message.

It’s going to be hard to make that work and to actually have it be successful.

Instead, understand that it’s going to be a lot easier if you just let the first contact after No Contact be simply about showing your ex that they can interact with you and it’s not going to be weird or awkward.

Once you do that, you can build off of that connection and deepen it, showing your ex that the two of you might have a future together as lovers.

But that’s not the point of first contact.

Just like how asking someone out on a date isn’t about getting married or ending up in a relationship.

It’s simply an invitation to hang out and see what might be possible between the two of you.

That’s exactly what the first contact between you and your ex should be.

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