Worried because he hasn't said those three little words yet? Get him to commit to you and only you: [ Ссылка ]

In this video, I'm going to be talking about five different reasons why a guy hasn't told you he loves you. The first reason is that he's just getting his together first before he can commit to a real relationship. In my experience of coaching both men and women, I found that men are a little bit different when it comes to commitment than women. Women tend to be a little bit more go with the flow. Like, if they find themselves in a relationship with a guy who they are just connecting with, who they're falling in love with, they tend to follow their heart a little bit further, regardless of their current life situation. Like, even if you're unemployed, you don't know where you're going to live, like, women tend to go for it a little bit more than men, on the other hand, who, they can many times be overwhelmingly in love with a certain woman but, if they are unemployed, they don't know where they're going to live, they're going to be moving if their life is just entirely in flux, men tend to pull away even though they're in love.

Reason number two is that he's been rejected in the past, and he's freaking terrified of getting rejected again. Sometimes I think that you sexy single ladies forget that us men, but we have hearts too. Sometimes, when we get our heartbroken from past relationships or other women who just were fricking crazy, we bring that baggage forward with us to the new relationship, which makes us even more concerned about just diving in headfirst.

The third reason why he hasn't said I love you is that he's just straight up not emotionally available. Now, when someone's emotionally unavailable, it doesn't necessarily mean that they're emotionally broken, or they're going to be emotionally available for the rest of their life. It just means, at this current stage in their life, they don't want a relationship, and they don't want to unleash the emotions that go along with a relationship. Now, this does not mean that you should wait for a guy to go from emotionally unavailable to emotionally available. That can take a very long time, and there's no guarantee that you're going to be the woman he ends up with.

The fourth reason is that he feels like he's already told you he loves you just through his actions. Maybe he's been spending more and more time with you, introducing you to his family or his kids or his parents, and he's bought you flowers, done all of that stuff, and to him, he feels like he's showed you his love, which quite frankly, in his mind, he thinks that means more than the words themselves. Now, this is perfectly healthy if you're still within the first six months of a relationship, but, if you're finding that the relationship's going between six months and nine months and certainly a year and beyond without the I love you word being said, well, then we need to start peeling back this onion a little further because there's something else going on here.

The fifth and final reason why a guy hasn't said he loves you is that he's not in love yet, or he never will be in love with you. And this is a harsh reality that sometimes happens. Sometimes you can get into a committed relationship with someone, things can be going well, but there isn't that extra spark that exists in the relationship. And maybe you've been in relationships in the past where you just haven't felt it. And sadly with any relationship it takes two to tango, and it can be harsh, and it can be painful, but what I want you to do is avoid investing your life and making lifelong decisions with someone who's not clearly in love with you yet.

Don't allow yourself to make serious decisions that you can't go back on without having that commitment of love. Don't let yourself have children with this man. Don't allow yourself to live with this man. Don't allow yourself to get married certainly with this man until that level of commitment is said verbally and is clearly shown to you. Get him to commit to you and only you: [ Ссылка ].

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