Learn how to make your husband fall back in love with you again permanently and deeply. In this video, Paul Friedman explains how your husband fell out of love, and how to get your marriage back on track. Once you understand why you'll be better equipped to avoid the pitfalls in the future.
No spells, no magic, no magic wands. This is really how we do it and the truth of this is that this is what we do, this is one of our sweet spots at The Marriage Foundation and so there's no trick here, there's no manipulation. It's a very sincere clean methodology and I'm going to share it with you. Now I should let you know that for those who don't have a strong will. If you can't really control yourself, can't control your mind, can't control the words that come out of your mouth because of habits and instinctive reactions then we have a course to help you but that's not what this is about. This is about telling you how to do it so let's take a look at what's really happening.
Why did your husband fall out of love with you?
You may in your mind come up with like one or two things but I'm going to share with you what is sort of universal. People get married and they have every intention of being nice to one another of treating each other the way you did when you first got together very respectfully, expressing a lot of appreciation, expressing a lot of compliments, really letting your husband know how much you thought of him, how positive your attitude towards him was. Then what happened was you became familiar with him, you started to see ways that you can actually enhance what you were saying to him to make him feel even better and then you became over-familiar with him.
This is a universal problem. We see this in every marriage that has gone so far as to split up. I call it over-familiarity, it is the number one killer of marriages and this is where it begins. So, your husband came to you and wanted to marry you for a very simple reason. He wanted your unconditional love and you were going to give that to him but because of over-familiarity and other things you started to pull back. Your heart wasn't as open as it was and men are very simple creatures. Black and white, he started to feel rejected by you and so he withdrew from you.
So, what is the answer? How do you do it?
It's very simple, reverse the process but all at once, reverse the process. Start showing him the kind of love and appreciation and recognition that you did when you first got together. Light his fire again, don't hold back, don't say things like "but that was years ago, things are different when you're married blah blah blah." Look, marriage is a very spiritual thing. It's based on unconditional love that's its foundation, the friendship of marriage because there has to be -- friendship is based on a choice that you made when you chose him to love him unconditionally. That has to be brought back.
If you do that you don't have to manipulate him, you don't have to convince him of anything. Your actions, your speech, your vibration towards him all of that will be enough. He will want to be with you again. He will fall in love with you again so that's it in the simplest form. Now what you are up against is not his behavior but your own mind. You see the human mind is connected to an animal body. Your animal body is reactive, it's all about survival and you have allowed these survival indications. These instinctive reactions to interfere with your heart's love and this is a common battle for everyone on every single spiritual path and marriage is an ultimate spiritual path.
It's a battle between the body's drives taking place in the mind and the soul's love and you have to win that battle. When you do, I didn't say if, when you do he will be attracted to you again. He'll test you it's natural but then if you stay consistent with this his heart will open to you, he will be in love with you once again. Now if you need help with this, you can read one of my books, there's only two of them at this point, "Breaking The Cycle" and "Lessons For a Happy Marriage" that gives you sort of a framework so you have a context but if you're not able to take control over your mind you may need the course. The course will take you to step by step and bring you to that place where you become who you were that loving beautiful woman who he wanted to spend the rest of his life with, and that's where you have to go.
You have to do this the real way every other way fails. You have to do it the real way, you have to go back to being not who you were but who you truly are your love. A woman represents that to a man in a way where he cannot get this anywhere else. The last time he had unconditional love was from his mother. You are supposed to replace that unconditional love as a wife of course and he will come back to you, guaranteed.
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