Parenting is a full-time and a lifetime job that can be hard and difficult. Once you are a parent, your role and responsibilities towards your kids will never end. It can be challenging and exhausting, and it can bring out your best and worst versions. It can push even the best person among us to the point of insanity. Next thing you know, you’re shouting something your rational mind knows you should Never say to your child; but it comes out of your mouth anyway before you can stop it.
The problem is that these negative words can leave some serious psychological scars on our children.
Pam Leo, a family literacy activist, and the author of "Connection Parenting", and a future children's book called "Please Read To Me', has worked with children and families for more than forty years.
She says, "You can’t teach children to behave better by making them feel worse. When children feel better, they BEHAVE better.”
Recent research suggests that emotional abuse can actually change the structure of a child’s brain; parents need to be a lot more conscious of and careful with the language they use around their children.
Researchers interviewed educators and counselors and asked them this question:
“What are the things you should never say to your child?”
They listed the top ten responses below. Parents should remove these phrases out of their vocabulary, and move towards a more positive parenting method of communication.
Children are often messy, loud, and they can drive you insane. But regardless of how they make you feel, there are some toxic phrases you should NEVER say to your children.
Here are 10 toxic things you should not say to your children.
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