This video talks about the reality that many queer people experience in 2023. There are many in our society who call themselves “allies” but life remains immensely challenging for many of us.

Performative allyship or well meaning allyship can feel good in a moment, but it can actually leave us feeling more isolated because everyone around us thinks things are fine.

This video is a bit bold, but that’s what @notdefining is all about. I say the things that maybe don’t get said so often.

Disclaimer - I love my allies and I still use the word ally for many beloved supporters of our community. As I say in the video, the real allies will understand what I’m talking about.

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We create content and mentor to help you find a place where you feel confident and fulfilled, whatever your background or identity.

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