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Most people can't understand your Asperger's Syndrome. Here's why: They can't relate. That is, they have no point of reference.
I have the solution. It's a simple question that will instantly allow almost anyone to empathize with your Asperger's Syndrome.
You make anyone understand your Asperger's Syndrome with one simple question. Coming up.
Here's the question to ask: "Have you ever experienced stage fright?"
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Asperger's is akin to stage fright, only it's non-stop. Continuous. Day-after-day for your entire life.
Almost everyone has experienced stage fright. Some have nightmares stemming from school experiences when they were forced to give an "oral report" in front of an entire class. The anxiety was unbearable. They were shrouded in fear. They were nervous and scared and shaky. They will never forget the horrific experience.
Now imagine that same STAGE FRIGHT EXPERIENCE every time you encounter another person. That's the essence of the Asperger's experience. When you meet someone on the street, when you encounter a clerk at the store, when you are forced to be emersed in a sea of people at school -- the school cafeteria is the worst -- and THEN you are expected to perform academically. When you encounter people at the workplace; both co-workers and customers. You experience stage fright. Consequently, it's almost impossible for Aspies to be employed. It's not that they can't do the job. Often they can do the job better than others -- if they are left alone.
(Now here's something odd. I've seldom experienced stage fright. I'm more comfortable in front of a crowd of hundreds than with a group of one or two. That may be because, when I was little, my parents made me sing in church. They'd stand me on a chair in front of the crowd and I'd sing for them.)
If you have Asperger's Syndrome, most people don't know what you are experiencing. Most will think you're just a little strange; a little different. A few will detect a weakness and bully you relentlessly. A handful will empathize and be supporters. Most will just dismiss you as odd and maybe a little aloof.
Asperger's Syndrome is a neurological trait. It never goes away. Aspies can learn to live with it. They can better themselves. But they can never NOT be Aspies. The stage fright is always there. It may be under control. But it's always there beneath the surface.
So the next time you feel a need to explain your Asperger's Syndrome to others, just ask them this simple question: "Have ever had stage fright?" followed by, "Imagine feeling that anxiety and stress every day of your life."
