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"The Ladies' Book of Etiquette" is a timeless guide to etiquette and manners, written by Florence Hartley and first published in 1860. This book was aimed at women of the 19th century and provided advice on how to navigate various social situations and conduct themselves with grace and poise. It became a popular and influential resource on proper behavior for women of the era.
The book is organized into chapters, each addressing specific aspects of etiquette and manners. Here is a detailed summary of its contents:
1. Introduction:
- Hartley begins by emphasizing the importance of good manners and etiquette for women.
- She notes that a lady's behavior reflects not only on herself but also on her family and social standing.
2. Personal Appearance:
- The book discusses the significance of personal grooming and dressing appropriately.
- It provides guidance on clothing choices, hairstyles, and the use of cosmetics.
3. The Language of Dress:
- This chapter delves into the symbolism of clothing and how it conveys a lady's character and social status.
4. Manners at Home:
- Hartley covers domestic etiquette, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a harmonious and well-ordered household.
- She discusses the roles of wives and mothers and how they should manage their homes efficiently.
5. Manners When Out:
- This section offers guidance on how to conduct oneself in public, including at social events, on the street, and during travel.
- It covers topics like walking, riding, and dancing.
6. Manners in Company:
- The book addresses social interactions and communication with others.
- It provides advice on how to engage in polite conversation, offer and accept invitations, and behave at gatherings.
7. The Art of Conversation:
- Hartley discusses the importance of good conversation and offers tips on topics of discussion and how to listen actively.
8. Politeness in Business and Professional Etiquette:
- This chapter explores the role of women in the workplace and offers advice on how to be professional and courteous in a business setting.
9. Letter-Writing:
- The book covers the art of letter-writing, offering guidance on structure, tone, and content.
- It emphasizes the importance of clear and respectful communication.
10. Making Calls:
- Hartley discusses the etiquette of visiting and receiving visitors.
- She explains how to make and respond to social calls, including the proper timing and behavior during visits.
11. Ceremonies and Customs:
- This chapter explores various ceremonies and customs, such as weddings, funerals, and religious observances.
- It provides guidance on appropriate behavior during these events.
12. Behavior in Church:
- The book addresses proper decorum and behavior in places of worship.
13. Behavior at the Opera, Theater, and Other Places of Amusement:
- This section offers advice on attending entertainment events with grace and respect.
14. Behavior in the Street:
- Hartley discusses how to comport oneself while in public spaces, emphasizing modesty and decorum.
15. Behavior at the Table:
- The book covers table manners, including how to set a table, use utensils, and interact with fellow diners.
16. Behavior at the Ballot Box:
- Hartley encourages women to be responsible citizens and vote according to their convictions.
Throughout the book, Florence Hartley emphasizes the importance of a lady's conduct in society and how it contributes to her personal and familial reputation. Her advice reflects the values and expectations of the 19th-century upper and middle classes, and while some aspects of etiquette have evolved over time, many of the principles of politeness and respect remain relevant today. "The Ladies' Book of Etiquette" continues to be a valuable historical resource for understanding the social norms and expectations of the 19th century.
Intro 00:00:00
CHAPTER I. 00:00:04
CHAPTER II. 00:15:08
CHAPTER III. 00:36:36
CHAPTER IV. 00:45:06
CHAPTER V. 00:50:23
CHAPTER VI. 01:04:38
CHAPTER VII. 01:11:54
CHAPTER VIII. 01:20:18
CHAPTER IX. 01:34:23
CHAPTER X. 01:41:19
CHAPTER XI. 01:50:21
CHAPTER XII. 02:04:42
CHAPTER XIII. 02:16:14
CHAPTER XIV. 02:21:14
CHAPTER XV. 02:31:36
CHAPTER XVI. 03:11:55
CHAPTER XVII. 03:31:05
CHAPTER XVIII. 03:35:36
CHAPTER XIX. 03:46:47
CHAPTER XX. 03:54:45
CHAPTER XXI. 04:02:45
CHAPTER XXII. 05:32:06
CHAPTER XXIII. 05:51:27
CHAPTER XXIV. 06:16:49
CHAPTER XXV. 06:23:02
CHAPTER XXVI. 06:55:19
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