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Transform COMPLAINTS with One Surprising Coaching Trick [The NLP "Meta Model"]
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Sometimes clients will COMPLAIN about... to what EXTENT things are going bad, or right, or wrong for them. They'll talk about their life in terms of "too much", or "not enough". In that case, then, you can actually access, and ask them for COMPARISONS.
"There's not enough money at this job." Well...
"COMPARED to what OTHER JOB?"
CONTRAST can be a very empowering thing. "You know what? I just don't have enough COURAGE to do what it takes to find a relationship."
"Compared to WHO? Are there people that are LESS COURAGEOUS than you?"
Or, like in an external complaint, they might say,
"My life is way too uncomfortable for me right now."
"Compared to WHAT OTHER LIFE? Compared to the third world? Compared to people that live in corrugated metal shacks in Africa?"
