Does your wife is violent towards you? Watch Paul tells you what really lies to this problem and for you to know what is really going on with your wife.

I got to tell you this is too common and I'm not going to tell you that you can fix your wife and I'm not going to tell you you should leave your wife although if she's throwing cans at you and you're in physical danger, you really gotta take things seriously. You can't let yourself be killed. But usually, the violence is somewhat controlled usually so we're going to deal with that. You can't fix her so get that out of your mind. If it ever even entered your mind you know you can't change people but you can change yourself. Now the advice I'm going to give you is pretty simple, pretty straightforward, A.) Don't do anything to trigger her and you know what that might be. It's particular to your own wife but be careful. Don't trigger her. If you do say, "I'm sorry," and then get her glass of water be nice to her even though you don't want to be nice to her.

She's suffering if she's violent and you're suffering so be nice to her. Break that cycle, break
that chain of events. Get things stabilized. B.) Get out of the way or is this, C.) Get out of the way. You don't have to stand there. You could excuse yourself. You could say, "I have to go to the
bathroom." You could say, "I got to go get something. Honey, I'll be right back, just wait." If all of these things and I'm sure you're trying them to some degree.

Learn more about yourself, about her about marriage. Get one of my books so you could study
up and find out what's happening to her so you have more knowledge because there's no pat answer. There's no one answer for everything. You got to do some work arounds. You got to do some basic awareness things but most important, don't react back. All that will do is get it going even more and I would love to tell you there's hope for her to settle down. I would love to tell you that but I haven't seen it.

Usually, when someone has a volatile personality until they discover for themselves that it's making them unhappy and it's making it worse and worse. When they act they won't do anything about it. so really the bottom line is all you could do is gain some awareness and get out of the way. And I met with men who stayed in their marriage because they have children and they didn't want to... In the United States, the woman is going to end up with the children if they're violent.
Those kids are going to be the recipients. It doesn't work out too well. You're kind of caught in a conundrum. There's no real help for you but you should learn more about marriage. Get one of the books. It will help you. Will it solve it? No, it won't. There's nothing you can do to solve this and I'm sorry about that.

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