Are you looking for signs of a controlling wife? Watch Paul gives you the answer and for you to find out what's really happening in a marriage.

I'm going to try and help you gain a little bit of understanding about your wife so you can go,
"Okay, so there are signs that she's controlling, so what? She's controlling and I'm this, and she's that, and I'm that and I'm this." None of us are perfect but I want to tell you a joke. It's maybe inappropriate it doesn't matter to me. If it's inappropriate because I think it's one of the funniest jokes I've ever heard.

This friend of mine dies and he goes to the gates of heaven and there are two lines. One line
says, "Henpecked husbands form line here," and the line goes so long -- it's all the way back to earth. And the men are standing there waiting to get into heaven because they've endured a wife henpecked as an old expression. It means that the wife is constantly on them and the other line says, "Non-henpecked husbands form line here." And there's one guy, so my friend goes up to the guy and he says, "Dude, what are you doing in this line?" And he answers,
"Hey look, my wife told me to stand here, and until she says it's okay this is where I'm going to stand."

Human nature can be divided into male and female. Again, this nonsense about gender equality
when it comes to "we're the same" is just nonsense. Of course, everyone should earn the same
amount of money, of course everyone should be treated with the utmost respect, of course, of course of course. But when it comes to the differences between the male who is in a male body
and that's why there are differences in a female. Again they create different thoughts, ideas, feelings, defense mechanisms in the mind. You're not going to change your life, you're not. You don't want her to change. You married her for her heart. Look past the controlling. Look past
the this and the that. Those don't matter. Do a workaround, see those attributes as cute.

Read one of my books. It'll give you so much more insight into what I'm talking about but you know what I'm talking about just by putting it out there like that. So you're not going to change her, don't worry about the signs whatever you're seeing that's the sign and it's real but don't even entertain the notion that she will change. Love her for who she is, her heart not the attributes.


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