Even in a relationship, rejection is totally normal – but "no" can look all kinds of ways, so it's important to keep an eye out for body language and other signs your partner isn't into getting physical.
It can hurt to think your partner doesn't want to be intimate, but the fact is there are many reasons someone might not be into it. No matter the reason, it's hard to hear a "no," but it's easy to respect it. Making sure your partner feels safe and supported is the only next move.
This is one of five SACE videos outlining some of the positive features of consent. Follow our Youtube channel or visit sace.ca/learn to check out videos illustrating how consent has to be clear; ongoing and act-specific; mutual and enthusiastic; and sober!
[Video description: A romantic couple is sitting together. Person 1 starts having memories of times when they were pressured by a previous partner to engage in sexual acts. Person 2 notices that the body language of Person 1 is indicating that they are uncomfortable. Person 2 says, “Just so you know, I’m really into you, and I’m only into doing what you’re into doing.”]
