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Dating A Younger Man? 25 Things You Better Know
By: Carlos Cavallo
One of the most controversial parts of dating and relationships is the age of your partner. Is it okay to date someone younger, older? If you're dating a younger man, you better know what to do.
We often think about older women dating younger men as “cougars.” But that label is just not fair.
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You might be a 40 or 50-something woman dating a guy in his 20s or 30s. Or you might be in your 60s or 70s dating a younger guy. The important factors are where you are in life, and where he is in life.
Age is just a state of mind right?
Well, not really. Age is much more important than you might realize.
I've already talked about dating an older man. But what about dating a younger man?
Is it okay to date a younger guy?
How young is too young?
Can dating a younger man work out?
Well the good news is that ANY relationship can work.
The bad news is that you have to MAKE it work.
Relationships don't run on autopilot. If you've ever tried this, you probably know what I mean.
"It doesn't matter who you date if you don't put the effort in to make a relationship work." - Carlos Cavallo
Why do guys get into relationships with older women?
Guys know that women over 30 are more focused and probably a little bit more emotionally stable. (Probably.)
A lot of the women he meets in the early 20s don't really appeal to him other than sexually
He may not be ready for a family, and he's looking for a woman who's already had hers
She probably already knows who she is
There are probably as many reasons for this as there are men.
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Before you date a younger man - Here are some secrets you MUST know:
SECRET TIP #1: Good thing - He doesn't have as much history
One of the best things about dating a younger guy is that he hasn't had time to cultivate a long string of past romances.
He may have a few relationships under his belt, and that would be a good thing. You don't want a guy that doesn't have any relationship experience.
SECRET TIP #2: BAD Thing - He doesn't have as much history!
The problem with a younger guy is that he doesn't have a lot of relationship experience, either. Some of the relationship skills that you take for granted may be foreign to him.
Be prepared to educate him on a lot of the subtle nuances of a relationship.
This is why it's a good idea to choose a younger guy who is willing to learn - AND knows that he doesn't know everything.
SECRET TIP #3: You better know his priorities
It should be obvious, but a younger guy is going to have different priorities in life than an older guy would.
Sometimes a younger guy is going to be more into his adventure sports than he is into building a career. Or maybe his focus is on his career and he's not ready to really settle down.
It's up to you to figure out where his head is at and whether he's ready for the kind of relationship you want.
SECRET TIP #4: Be careful you're not trading age for excitement
It's no secret that older guys can be pretty boring. Like, really really boring.
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But you also want to make sure that you don't choose a younger guy just because you think he's more exciting. He may be exciting, but he may also be completely untethered and lacking a stable foundation.
You might need a guy that can keep up with you. You might be energetic and full of life.
And if you can't seem to find the guys that are willing to keep up, you may have to go younger in the dating pool. Just be careful that you're not seeking these guys because you need a few thrills. Ultimately, you're probably going to want a man who is willing to slow down enough to be with you. (Or speed up!)
SECRET TIP #5: Younger guys are easier to sculpt and change
The truth is that if he's younger that means he hasn't had time to build up resistance to change.
This can be a good thing if he is malleable. You might need a little project to work on.
Just remember that no matter how old he is, a man doesn't want to feel like you have to change him.
A man's number one need from a woman is her acceptance.
If you're more interested in shaping him then accepting him, he will notice.
But the good news is that if he's younger, he -
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