$80,000 per year Dad and Mom $12 per hour part time child support hearing kids live with Dad more

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I wouldn't expect Candy to pay me child support if I had the kids 50% of time if she made 80 000 a year and you were making 12 bucks an hour we'd be having the exact same conversation except she'd be the one recommended to pay how much do you make there twelve dollars an hour how many hours a week um around 25 at the most every two weeks is this considered full-time then no not full-time it's still part-time oh could you work full-time uh where do you work I work for Butler communication as the director of engineering how much do you make 80 000 yearly station but you make a whole lot of money and uh you didn't like the child support so you talked about how you could get that done she said well more overnights would would reduce it and and then you kind of tailored your your argument because of that but that's really not a determination I mean you determine the custody first which you guys all kind of did on your own me paying like

.... I had to apply for assistance so they they did all that well I mean I'm not trying to stick it you don't have the house I mean I still pay for the lawyer and all the papers you left the house and I had to resume all responsibilities the bills and everything is what I meant everything was getting


....parenting timefull physical custody then they would make a re-termination on the child support and so overnights would change so that would change that but what are you basing your full physical custody on that they were here with me but you both have agreed that they split spent an equal amount of time with both of you up until like a month or so ago no they they were with me for the first month and then um they started trying to do the day by day we've been just trying to work it out it's been all over the place you know so that they're with both of us but it hasn't been exactly equal

....there are 12 factors I gotta look at all of them when I determine where kids are going to live oh and I haven't you know done any of that I just I I don't I don't even know the laws about I didn't I mean I just was going off of what she said and what it made sense to me so I mean it sounds like that was driven by child support you didn't like the child support so you talked about how you could get that done she said well more overnights would would reduce it and and then you kind of tailored your your argument because of that but that's really not a determination I mean you determine the custody first which you guys all kind of did on your own and then the overnights fall where they may when you go ahead and you and you do child support now I did pop the new numbers in because she was running minimum wage before I put in the 12 an hour and I can if the kids are taking off Medicaid I can back out that ordinary medical and it would be 349 which is a little bit less than I think the original recommendation but you make a whole lot of money and uh I I don't know um yeah but I mean honestly when we broke I let her have the car I paid for all that I paid for her phone I'm still paying for the house


they're naive they're children you know they they don't know the underlining factors of what's going on they've seen a lot of our arguing but they've seen a lot of his reactions and they didn't see mine because I was hiding away crying not bringing them into my feelings because it's not their problem to Barry or carry you know I didn't want them to see it so they see they would see what he was going through but they wouldn't see what I was going through because I'm a closet crier or a bedroom crier you know and so when it all happened they thought I was just for lack of better terms to you know kind of so I don't know if that had something to do with it or I don't I don't know because I can't be you know that fly on the wall when they're having conversations over there I just know that they their their relationship is closer with him than it is with me but I don't think that should factor into parenting time you know that's great you guys have a bond what about me when do I get a chance to establish a bond without them him there since




then man that's incumbent on you getting the kids off of Medicaid though because that does not include the 55 for the ordinary medical that would be the amount that would go to the state to recover that okay as soon as we're off this call I will call my caseworker

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