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What do I do when my wife has some irrational feelings? Well, first we pause and remember we aren't the judge of whether her feelings are rational or not. It's not our job to determine which one of her feelings is ok to feel. It's our job to be safe place for her to open up and share whatever she's feeling. Does that mean every feeling should be acted upon? No. But feelings are signals. Treating them as right or wrong isn't helpful. What's helpful is listening, and validating, and empathizing, especially when we don't agree with what she's feeling. We don't have to agree with everything she feels to say "whatever's going on inside of you matters to me."
