Content warning. This conversation is between two people who are comfortable moving into and out of discussions involving violence. We are both involved in advocacy: Stephanie works with Into Account. I speak as a survivor advocate from Plain background.
2:00 Guilt/innocence and honor/shame intro
3:00 Definitions of honor/shame
4:40 Hierarchy in honor/shame cultures
6:25 The Plain culture hierarchy
12:00 The online discussion: a collection of shame/shame voices
15:00 Conversation turns to current names/groups
19:45 Indirect communication
22:12 Honesty and indirect communication
26:05 Does this kind of honesty work to keep communities together?
29:27 Honesty in investigations: technical honesty
31:20 Stephanie points out lying by omission.
32:00 Witness intimidation
37:55 Permanency of shame enshrined in some Plain resources
38:55 Honor/honor compared to shame/shame
40:52 Why silence those in pain? more on investigations and truth
44:00 What happens with the trauma of survivors who stay?
51:15 Utopian view of Plain culture
52:25 How do we empower Plain people who are oriented towards those who are hurting?
57:48 Quote by Dr. Harder
59:23 Conscience in honor/shame cultures versus individualistic guilt/innocence
1:10:09 Social media and passive aggressiveness
1:20:25 Stephanie asks Rhoda about passion projects.
1:23:45 Allyship and plain survivor voices
