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How to stop people pleasing [ Ссылка ]
People pleasing doesn't lead to anyone actually being PLEASED! We think sacrificing and overextending for our loved ones is kindness, we think abandoning what we need to feel emotionally safe for the sake of someone else's needs is love, but it's not, and it only leads to resentment.
Marriage is all about commitment and faithfulness and trust and connection and friendship and intimacy. Are you prioritizing those in your relationship? If not, there's really no point in even getting married. That is how we HAVE a great marriage. That is what LOVE requires of us. They aren't add on's. They are essential to a healthy marriage. You can stay together, but the presence of respect and emotional safety and closeness and playfulness is what makes a relationship thrive. And it's possible for you!
