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Fear of asking a girl out! Dating advice video!

Hi Guys this is Gabriella Ryan joined with Iain Myles and today we're going to talk about the fear of asking a girl out.

I know It’s intimidating. And what happens if she says no? There are so many scenarios! The fear and tension involved in asking a girl out is so real that people now just hang out rather than go on a proper date. You can only have a proper date if you ask her out. Guys who appear tense before asking a girl out are often told, “Just ask her out.”It sounds easy. It should be but unfortunately that is not the case. Lately, it is easier for a man to call a girl and just ask what plans she has for the afternoon. This is not asking her out… Guys- you need to be more specific!

Fear of rejection

Some guys can't handle the thought of rejection. The first step is you need to take the risk of being rejected. What is the worst can happen?she says no and you move on to the next! The girl might just not be up to it. She might prefer staying indoors rather than boring you. Don't get personal about it. You can ask for her opinion about perhaps an indoors date. She might be comfortable with it. You will never enjoy a proper date if you're just full of fear. This fear can develop into some social disorder whereby you cant even stay in the presence of a girl. It will kill your social life. Fight this fear by talking about it. I always benefit from self talks! You can also discuss it with a trusted friend, as talking through your fear will give you some perspective. Stop imagining horrific scenarios as it is not that bad and your life isn’t in danger! You know what it looks like when a confident, self-assured guy gets a date with a beautiful girl… It's all about the belief and not buying to the fear of the rejection

Break it down

Take baby steps and write down the fear…Is it real? Is it a fact or it is just your opinion? What is the worst can happen? What would you do if the worst happens? Breaking down your fears will improve your ability to walk up to a girl and ask her out. It will guide you on how to speak to her whether face-to-face or on the phone.

Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He's highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating.

Gabriella Ryan is Kamalifestyles youtube presenter and she regularly publishes videos on different dating topics on KamaTV. She also takes part in infield training's by helping our dating coaches. She brings the female perspective and gives honest feedback to the clients in relation to what women think in certain situations. Our clients say “her honest feedback into the female mind is very good and shockingly interesting”.

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