Been ghosted by your twin flame? That can really hurt. It's pretty common for the Divine Masculine in particular (but not always) to go silent / ghost his twin flame, particularly as they go into the time of separation but it's NOT what you think!

Because being ghosted by your twin flame can feel painful, it's easy to take it personally. It's cam make you feel hurt, upset, confused as to what happened or what you 'did wrong'. On the other side, you might get angry if you've been ghosted. You don't see any reason why your twin would ghost you, and it's 'obviously just them being a nasty person'.

These responses come from a place of your own deep wounding and highlight your own abandonment fears. What we forget when we are in our own place of hurt is how the other person might be feeling that causes them to ghost in the first place.

We make ghosting about US, when really the behaviour says more about your twin flame than it does about you. Think about it - does a normal, healthy, balanced person just randomly 'ghost' somebody else?

The reasons twin flames ghost can be many but it's often because they feel overwhelmed emotionally, the intensity of the connection makes them feel unstable, and they might never have been taught that their voice is valued.

As a result, they might have learned unhealthier patterns in childhood to cope with their voices being shut down or disbelieved in some way - these behaviours often include withdrawing to tend to their own emotional needs and process their often very deep and complex emotions. As children they learned to emotionally take care of themselves because nobody else was there to do so and / or they had unhealthy role models.

However if you react strongly to your twin flame ghosting you, it's often because there is something blocking you from your compassion and understanding for your twin - these are your own wounds, that propel you into your reactive / response state.

Your twin flame isn't going anywhere, your twin flame stays around for much longer than is 'normal' by standard relationships, so this connection isn't going to be impacted in the long term by a spell of ghosting. So what is it you are worried about?

Ignore what your twin flame is or isn't thinking. Your job when you are ghosted and feel wounded is to come into a place of beautiful balance and peace within yourself. Take the attention off of them - they are emotional enough without feeling your energy around them weighing on their decisions.

Bring your energy and focus back to you. Relax, breathe, try to see where you might need healing. Reactivity - whether ghosting OR REACTION TO THE GHOSTING - is usually a response to an underlying fear, which is often caused by an underlying emotional wound, trauma, or need.

This is the precious gift of time YOU need to go within, reflect, restore, rebalance.

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