Hari ubwoko bw'abakobwa ushobora kwirinda gukundana nabo kubera imyitwarire cyangwa imico itaba myiza. Niba ushaka kwirinda ibibazo mu rukundo, dore ibyiciro by'abakobwa ushobora kwitondera:
Uwikunda cyane: Umukobwa ubona ko ari we mwiza gusa, udaha agaciro ibyo ukora cyangwa ibyo ukunda.
Uwinyuramo cyane: Uhorana imico ihindagurika; rimwe aragushimisha, ubundi akakubabaza bitabaye ngombwa.
Uwiringira ifaranga gusa: Umukobwa ureba gusa imitungo yawe, cyangwa ibyo umuha, aho kureba umubano mwiza mufitanye.
Udashira amakenga: Abakobwa bahora bagushinja ibintu bidafite ishingiro kandi bagakunda kugutendeka.
Udashaka gukora cyangwa kwiteza imbere: Umukobwa utagira gahunda y'ejo hazaza, akubeshya ko ibye byose uzabimukorera.
Ibi ni byo watekereza mbere yo gutangira urukundo rw'igihe kirekire.
