THINK ABOUT IT...
There Is a huge difference between Punishments and discipline.
Discipline means "teaching" and not "punishing."
Does punishment show kids what to do when they make mistakes? - "NO"
When a child gets punished for their mistakes it means they are not allowed to make mistakes. Punishment does not teach kids how to avoid mistakes in the future.
The idea of punishment is to instill a fear of making mistakes.it leaves no room for healthy behavior.
So what is the solution? Parents must model for their children what it means to make wise decisions, and treat others with respect. Mistakes are opportunities to learn for parents and children.
By inflicting pain, fear, and shame on children, methods like hitting, timeouts, taking away their favorite items, grounding, etc is not a way to teach children “
Usually parents respond that’s how we learned what’s a big deal.
What you really gained from it? It is - 1. If you make mistakes punishment is only option 2. if you make mistakes, you will not be loved. 3. Hide your mistake so you won’t get punished.
Punishment has a huge psychological impact on a child. When a child is punished a child experience pain, fear, anxiety, anger, shame, guilt, etc. In the long run, it creates psychological issues such as anxiety, hopelessness, depression, etc. It also affects their cognitive development and growth. Punishment teaches a child to be more aggressive, and DO NOT PROVIDE any insight on HOW TO SOLVE PROBLEM or HOW TO CORRECT THEIR MISTAKES. So When a child gets punishment what cost a child has to pay have you ever thought about it?
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