Tracy Schorn, author of "Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady Survival Guide" answers questions from victims of infidelity.
00:05 - Revenge?
01:39 - Destroy the other woman?
03:17 - Children love the cheater
05:45 - How to move past rage?
08:38 - Why are affairs considered sexy? Why reconciliation?
11:08 - Why do chumps have a hard time accepting the reality of infidelity?
13:01 - How to support children of absent parent?
14:48 - Dealing with "parent of the year" facade
16:06 - Dealing with forgiveness guilt peddlers
18:15 - How to respond to questions about "what happened?"
20:01 - Is an Exit Affair somehow different?
22:45 - What made you wake up?
25:30 - Do you hear from authors of posts that you sent to the UBT?
26:42 - When are you going to do a TED Talk?
27:55 - Why is infidelity abuse?
30:21 - Do you constantly wonder if your next parter is cheating?
31:45 - Are there "one mistake" cheaters?
34:28 - Afflicted with STD from cheater! How to get past it?
36:02 - Does analyzing cheaters daily ever depress you?
37:32 - Deposing affair partner in a no fault state?
38:20 - Preview clip
39:05 - How do I stop caring what my ex thinks of me?
40:34 - *What can I expect in leaving my cheater?
40:46 - Should I confront my ex and their partner?
44:27 - How do I choose a good mate?
46:47 - Why won't my cheater treat me fairly?
48:36 - Why do you advocate telling the kids about infidelity?
50:34 - Why is No Contact so hard?
52:35 - How to handle seeing cheater at family events?
54:24 - How does a cheater prioritize cheating over their intact family?
55:56 - How do I get past processing the infidelity?
57:00 - How do i get to Meh when he gets the perfect single life and I have such difficulty?
59:11 - Will I survive losing everything precious to me?
01:01:16 - How to communicate cheaters pathology to others without seeming bitter?
01:03:13 - How do you control the sick feeling from seeing email from ex?
01:05:04 - Do you have a hard time blogging with your real name about being a chump?
01:06:38 - How do I stop talking about my ex?
01:08:20 - Do you ever post anonymously on reconciliation boards?
