Stubbornness is not a good trait. Read the full post at [ Ссылка ]
People think it's a good trait because they confuse suborn with the idea of persistence. They say, "Oh, I'm just persistent. I hold on to my beliefs. But that's not stubbornness."
Those people are not correct. Persistence is similar to determination.
Determination is overcoming struggles on a quest that is aligned with your core values. Stubbornness is more like a whiney child sitting in the aisle of the grocery store screaming. You don't want to be stubborn. It is a defense mechanism. It's a fear of being wrong.
And it's an inability to accept the consequences of, “What if I am wrong?”
And that's the question… are you wrong?
Can you handle being wrong?
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