PEOPLE IN POWER ARE SCARED OF EXPRESSED CONFLICT AND TRY TO IGNORE IT OR RUN FROM IT
WHEN SOMEONE RAISES AN ISSUE THAT CAUSES DISCOMFORT THE RESPONSE IS TO BLAME THE
PERSON FOR RAISING THE ISSUE RATHER THAN TO LOOK AT THE ISSUE WHICH IS ACTUALLY CAUSING
THE PROBLEM
EMPHASIS ON BEING POLITE
EQUATING THE RAISING OF DIFFICULT ISSUES WITH BEING IMPOLITE RUDE OR OUT OF LINE
ANTIDOTES ROLE PLAY WAYSTO HANDLE CONFLICT BEFORE CONFLICT HAPPENS DISTINGUISH
BETWEEN BEING POLITE AND RAISING HARD ISSUES DONT REQUIRE THOSE WHO RAISE HARD
ISSUES TO RAISE THEM IN ACCEPTABLE WAYS ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE USING THE WAYSIN
WHICH ISSUES ARE RAISED AS AN EXCUSE NOT TO ADDRESS THOSE ISSUES ONCE CONFLICT IS
RESOLVED TAKE THE OPPORTUNITY TO REVISIT IT AND SEE HOWIT MIGHT HAVE BEEN HANDLED
DIFFERENTLY

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